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Five Days to Success :)

Five more days :)

Yup, there are five more days to my Lenten sacrifice :) Yeeeey!!! Yup, I have not gone online since March 8 and today when I got my bill (my significantly underutilized consumable Smart Gold plan ergo I kinda had to pay anyway for a service I did not use toink), it dawned on me that it’s been 35 days since I went on this little sacrifice :) I have realized a lot of things in the month that I have been offline for more time than I’m used to and I guess I can say it’s a good thing :)

For one, I think I am a much better conversationalist now. I don’t know if that’s a real word, but I’m going with it haha! I can actually sit through an entire meal without checking my mail or my Facebook or chatting with someone online, thus I am able to do better in offline relationships. For example, yesterday I managed a whole two and a half hour conversation with someone without even checking my cellphone/going online! Yey me.

Secondly, I have become a safer driver. Yes, I realize with all the time I have left the phone in the bag how reckless and careless my behavior often is.

Lastly, because I am not always online, I have learned to focus on other things. I realized that many times I was going online when I’d be in the car because I didn’t like having to sit by myself and to just be alone with my thoughts. But because I forced myself to do that, I guess I’ve grown in that aspect of my life. In those many, many times of silence, I have learned so much about myslef.

So there…my Lenten sacrfice…..my friends were teasing me about it at first, especially since I am not usually the type to practice these traditions or observe such rituals. Apparently from sacrifice so much can be learned. I did this only as a challenge, but in the end, Im gained so much in return :)

At the end, I guess it was all well worth it :)

  • #1
    Posted by Rezywezy on April 19th, 2011 at 5:19 pm

    Wow, this made me suddenly realize something: Spending a lot of time online (even if its work related), means a gazillion possibilities to de-focus… to the point of information overload (prolly worse that watching thousands of TV ads, LOL). Take away the distractions, you regain your focus. Lovely thought.

  • #2
    Posted by Fristine on April 19th, 2011 at 6:58 pm

    Congratulations, Ria! I’m proud of you! sometimes, you really have to disconnect in order to connect :)

  • #3
    Posted by yapatoots on April 19th, 2011 at 8:51 pm

    thanks fristine :) im really surprised i made it, actually but yes, the disconnecting really allowed me to connect in so many other ways!!! :)

  • #4
    Posted by yapatoots on April 19th, 2011 at 8:52 pm

    :) it’s amazing no? we go online and are available to others supposedly to connect but because there are so many “connections” we miss out on important signals. egaad does that make sense? teeeheee…i know im trying to say something but its kinda lost in translation right about now haha. thanks for dropping by rezza :) havent seen you around lately :)

  • #5
    Posted by Jade on April 22nd, 2011 at 7:01 pm

    This is a good idea! Sometimes I feel kinda guilty when a loved one next to me is talking and he doesn’t get my 100% attention :( I think I will do try your idea too :) to get reconnected

  • #6
    Posted by yapatoots on April 22nd, 2011 at 8:37 pm

    go go goooo!!! im sure you can do it!

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